Every time I rushed in to help, I was actually saying "I don't think you can handle this yourself."
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That message destroys unknowingly confidence faster than anything else 📉
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Our kids don't need our solutions - they need our belief in THEIR ability to find solutions.
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When we constantly rescue them, we rob them of the chance to build resilience, problem-solving skills, and self-confidence.
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Now I ask "What have you tried so far?" before jumping in.
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Remember: We're not raising children - we're raising future adults who need to navigate life long after we're gone 👏
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